5 important benefits of counselling for stress and anxiety management
Discover 5 reasons to seek counselling for stress and anxiety management, including coping strategies and better sleep.
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Me and my girl have been having problems, our relationship has been on and off because I have hurt her in the past and I seem to repeat the same mistakes. I don’t do it intentionally and I have been trying to change but it seems no good because we keep coming back to the same place. I want to be better for her because I really love this girl and I can’t imagine a life without her. It’s hurts and even as a type this message I’m fighting back tears. I want to change I want to be better for her. Please help me because I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I hate myself and I’m scared I might end up doing something bad to myself, I can’t even stand the sight of myself in the mirror. We are both still students finishing school.
We been together for 10years we have a Son of 6years old. We have been staying together for 6years and then my farther bought a plot and asked me to stay there our relationship changed because of this and also my partner was drinking too much whereby I am an occasional drinker he will drink anytime any day. I moved back after 2years and things was just out of hand I could not handle it any more so I left to stay with a friend for few days and thereafter decide to go stay at my granny's house where I grew up. I am there now, but my partner decides to change his life becoming a born again, however ever since our relationship has been the best and we would like to take it to the next level.
We are a lesbain couple who recently got back from a break up and willing to work things out. We want to communicate better, trust each other, and to be honest with each other. I would love my partner to be more open with her struggles We planning to get married and have children but want to fix us first before any responsibilities Families have known about the break up now the challenge is accepting that we are back together again. I wanna learn to trust and love my partner whole heartedly
I as the boyfriend cheated and left my partner even after finding out she was pregnant, the baby miscarried as a result of stress. My ex-partner then fell pregnant again with my child because of cheating I was not pregnant during the pregnancy. Now our lives have turned for the worst with things spiriling out of control.
I cheated on my girlfriend multiple times in the past,I had so much lust controlling me,I ended up leaving her,that broke her to pieces,that even after forgiving me over and over I left her and moved on with someone else,I then regretted it,I missed her so much,I realised how much I love her,I always loved her but I didn't treat her right,now we got back together and are trying to fix things but she keeps on leaving me cause she's reminded of everything I did,the moment we're happy she has flash backs and remembers what I did and feels the need to pull herself away from me even though I truly have changed,we love each other,we need help so she can forgive me and we need help to move forward together cause we do want to get married but the trauma I caused her is too much for her to handle.
We don't have medical aid and my boyfriend doesn't currently work. We both have past trauma, I come from childhood abuse and his I would like to think it is his story to tell. We would like to work on our communication as this is a major issue. We also are very different he is an introvert INTP and I am very direct and a extrovert ESFP . We both know that we need individual counseling as well. So our only challenge we face right now is budget.
she makes financial demands every time and i am in loan sharks because of trying to maintain her but when i have to pay back the money she complains that i must pay them back next time and she is always right with anything i do not have to come with suggestions going forward saying i drink too much that means i have money of which i do not have just sometimes my friends are the ones boosting me...Please help.
Our relationship has been on the ups and downs and we’ve had a number of lousy fights and its been two months we have not had any contact or meet ups. So she suggested that we see a therapist and start fresh. I asked her to do all the seeking and after a week she got back to me to ask me to help her search for one. And i agreed on the condition that i will find one and she will have to do the bookings of course because i feel like i do almost everything.