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We've been very satisfied with the service. I only filled out the short form on Procompare as a joke, I didn't expect much from it, but we actually got some decent options so at the end, we chose the therapist we found on this site.
Couples therapy isn't just for relationships in distress. Common signs that you might benefit from seeing a therapist include recurring conflicts without resolution, poor communication, feelings of distance or dissatisfaction, and significant life stressors like infidelity or financial strain. However, couples also seek therapy to strengthen their relationship, learn new skills for healthy conflict, or prepare for life changes together. Essentially, anytime you wish to improve your connection, communication, or handle a difficult decision together, couples therapy can be beneficial.
While some couples may fear that therapy could exacerbate their issues, this concern usually stems from the discomfort of having difficult but necessary conversations. An ineffective therapist or approach might sometimes lead to a negative experience, but in many cases, therapy challenges couples to be vulnerable in unfamiliar ways, which can be misconstrued as worsening the relationship. However, this process can be healing and beneficial in the long run. It's important to find a well-trained, licensed therapist, and remember that, for some couples, parting ways may ultimately be the healthiest outcome, representing a form of success in understanding what's best for both individuals.
It's not uncommon for one partner to be more enthusiastic about couples therapy than the other. However, therapy can still be beneficial if both partners are willing to attend sessions and try to engage with the process. Therapists are skilled at working with varying levels of engagement and can help motivate the less interested partner by highlighting the potential benefits for the relationship and addressing any fears or misconceptions about therapy. Over time, as the couple begins to experience improvements in their relationship, both partners often become more invested in the therapy process.
I recently just got into a relationship and my boyfriend and I have decided to do couples therapy somewhere in the Vaal of parys especially now that the relationship is still new. I am from Bloemfontein and hes from the Vaal. I would therefore like to inquire about your rates and more information regarding how this will unfold especially because he has never been to therapy.
I found that the girl I love with all my heart cheated me with her ex boyfriend and when I asked her that who cheated me with she looked me in my eyes leir to me and I want to forgive her but it's hard for me to forgive her and I love her with whole my heart I didn't expect her doing things like I am now thinking to kill her my heart is broken and her family didn't do anything about it they just keep quiet for me.i am so heart 💔 broken I don't know what to do now because I really love her
I’m here because I need help untangling the relationship dynamic I’ve had with my partner, Zama. She’s very emotionally intelligent and self-aware, but sometimes it feels like that turns into subtle guilt-tripping or manipulation — where I end up being blamed for everything, even when I try to share my own hurt. I want to explore: Why I keep feeling responsible for all her pain, but my own feelings get dismissed. Why I’ve learned to shut down and avoid conflict instead of speaking openly. Whether this dynamic is healthy or fair — or if it’s keeping us both stuck. How I can communicate better, set healthy boundaries, and protect my own emotional wellbeing too. Ultimately, I do still care about her and miss her, but I need clarity on whether the relationship can be rebuilt in a healthy way, or if it’s better to let go.
I’ve been struggling with self-worth and attachment in relationships. I’m trying to heal from heartbreak, patterns of overgiving, and feeling like I need to earn love. I also experience emotional ups and downs, especially around my cycle. I want to feel more emotionally safe, stable, and in tune with myself
Our divorce was finalised in October , we seperated on the 20th January . We have four daughters aged 24, 21, 13 and 10. Our Minor children find it hard to cope with the divorce and currently shows signs of anger and disrespect towards their father. We have a co-parenting plan in place but has not been implemented correctly. The children stay with their mother and sometimes skip visiting their father.
Must be able to communicate in IsiZulu, child has also lost a mother, has resided in a couple of households with different family members but now resides with their father. They have been removed from school previously due to behavioral issues and they have now been asked to bring in a parent before they resume school due to behavioral issues again currently
I am a stepfather and have a situation in which my step son clearly dislikes his mother. He wont even greet her unless reminded to. He views everything she says as acrimonious and we were recently called to a meeting at school because he made up a whole lot of nonsense about his mom and how she treats him. I need my wife and her son to figure out their relationship. Note that his biological father passed away when he was 2 and half and he absolutely adored his dad... Now its me.
We are married for 39 yrs. we’ve lost a child 10 years ago. Infidelity has been a constant in our relationship for our entire marriage. Drug and alcohol abuse as well from my husband. He’s now 1yr sober. He wants space and a separation or divorce. We need help to get back on track in our marriage.
I feel like a paranoid & insecure person, my marriage is falling apart and I feel like I'm the only one who sees this when I raised this issue to my husband he acted surprised but I could tell he feels the same but scared to say it and this started after he cheated. Things have not been going well and I've been unemployed since
I'd like to find out the truth about what's troubling her that she refuses to go to school I also want her to tell us what happened with her cousin and what she said because I believe her but her grandparents refuses to believe what she says and she is just a child she wouldn't make up something like that up